25 Seeking a woman who enjoys chatting and playing in the evenings.

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys an interesting conversation as much as the phonesex itself. I’m hoping to find someone to be online FWBs with, though of course you never know who that could be until you try, right?

Quickies are great, but while I’m not looking for a new best friend, I think anything sexual is better when there’s a real connection, even if it’s just a nice conversation beforehand.

So, here’s the deal. I’m patient. I would rather wait and find the right person than jump in with someone who clearly isn’t on the same wavelength with me.

I’m kind. I won’t mistreat you, degrade you, or behave like you’re my prisoner in a bad spy movie. There’s a difference between passionate, even aggressive sexuality, and being cruel or mean. One can be thrilling, the other is just awful. It starts with kindness and respeOntario.

I don’t ghost people unless they’re mean, or I’m concerned by their behavior. I’m not interested in meeting someone who is auditioning for their own personal remake of Fatal Attraction!

I’m intellectual. I’m really well educated, so if you’re hoping for Zog the Caveman who grunts and knows three dirty words he repeats over and over, I’m not your guy. Well, okay, fine, the grunting comes later.

I’m curious. I want to know about you. There’s that whole “connection” thing I was talking about! I won’t ever pry, but there is so much two people can learn about each other even while respecting each other’s privacy. People are sexy because they’re fascinating.

I’m straight (except for this one time, years ago), so if you’re not a woman, I won’t respond. No, you won’t convince me otherwise.

I’m a writer, podcaster, former theater kid, gamer, film buff, and a reader. I’m a nerd and have been since before that moniker was cool.

I’m progressive, so if you’re a conservative, move on. Your people are out there, but I’m not one of them. I believe in the dignity of all people. Surprise surprise, I’m a political nerd, and I follow politics in Canada, Ontario, and the US.

Still with me?

Please be in North AmeriOntario, otherwise we’ll never find a time to meet up on a voice app. Please don’t be married. I don’t judge married people who post here, but I just can’t do that. And please say more than "hey" or I won't respond.