30 BBW looking for casual/flirty fun with an intelligent lady or gentleman

I wish to start with the imperceptible: I am a romantic.

I love love, I adore flirtationships, I am a cuddle-aholic.

But I am not emotionally ready nor willing to be the "girl you are looking for". Not right now and not likely not for awhile. I am a busy lady, with a career, a dog, and a pile of paperwork that just won't go away.

Who I am: INFJ, very liberal minded and prefer partners who are too, creative, honest, genuine, outgoing when I want/need to be, friendly, open minded, not a "drinker" or a pot smoker unless at a party/with friends (but okay if you are).

Who I prefer you are: someone with a life, goals, but who likes coming home to a friendly message, or meeting up for coffee/beers, someone who is also open-minded, witty, flirty, curious, someone who might want to cuddle for a bit on a cold night, be creative with me, be nerdy with me. Someone who is willing to just be direct and talk. Someone who won't judge my love of musicals.

No gender/non-gender, race, physical requirements. Just be loving in nature and intelligent.

Thank you for reading. :)