[33 ] long conversations & distraction from daily life

Hi! I’m 33 and I’m from EU, I’m in a relationship (not looking to change that situation), and I don’t have kids.

I’m fit, hard-working and very goal focused, currently in a stage where I’m very career-oriented, which can get draining from time to time. I’m here to find that spark again, some relaxation, and some good conversation. I prefer talking to older men, ideally 45+, but keep in mind I’m not looking for a daddy or a mentor here. Humor is very welcome.

I love hiking, reading, learning new things, and baking (as of recently). I like to take care of myself in all aspects of life, as well as my home and my environment.

I don’t have enough capacity for rapid fire 24/7 chats, and I prefer exchanging longer messages - so, ideally, you thrive in that kind of dynamic. I think we’d be a match if you’re in a similar situation (read: working a lot, always on, always responsible, and looking for a little something to brighten up your days). I don’t mind if you have a partner or you’re married, but I also don’t want our conversation to turn into bashing said partners. I would like it much more if it was just our little world.

Speaking of that, I’d like to keep things online only, and I’m not looking to meet in person.

I’m not looking for sexting, and I’m not looking to exchange photos after the first messages for privacy reasons, I’d like us to build a layer of trust first. Hence why I’m also writing this from a throwaway acc :) Discretion is extremely important to me, and it’s important that you feel the same way.

If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself!