34 Fortune Favors the Bold.

EDIT/UPDATE: I am no longer looking for an OAP… BUT I wanted to come back here and say that I was blown away by the number of thoughtful responses I received from seemingly amazing men. I didn’t reply to all of them (sorry…!) so here’s a blanket thank-you to all of you. Good luck in your search.

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Here we go - my first time posting in a sub like this, although I'm no stranger to this particular circle of the internet. I've always taken advantage of my female privilege and ability to lurk and browse posts/profiles at my leisure. I'm trying something new today. RIP my inbox, if the tales can be believed. Such is life.

We're all here for some version of the same thing. The pulse-racing, the butterflies, the excitement of something new and unfamiliar. Me? I'm just another addiOntario, chasing my next high. I've been married for a long time. It is a good, solid marriage, but it's not... new. I'm looking for that stimulating conversation, about anything and everything, where I don't know what answers to expeOntario. For honesty and vulnerability, because in this digital world of anonymity, why be anything else but honest? And of course - to feel desirable again, in that consuming, light-the-world-on-fire-for-just-one-more-taste-of-you kind of way.

I am: 5'6, somewhere between a slim/athletic build & a mom bod (desperately trying to keep the scale tipped in favor of the former!), a halfsie Asian, a wife, a mother, an intelligent white-collar professional, a bookworm, a food enthusiast (aren't we all), a hobby outdoorswoman when I have the time (which, being a mom to two toddlers, I don't actually have).

I have: dark hair, dark eyes, glasses, a dramatic, obsessive love for the written word, tendencies towards introversion, self-proclaimed immature taste in music, a bit of a submissive streak, the propensity to write everything out in lists.

I like to think of myself as being open to anything, but in all my time reading through posts here (yes, gentlemen, some of us do read them, and appreciate the thought you put in even if we don't respond), I realize that I do have a type. I prefer: