35 An unusual and indecent proposal

I'm a little bit of an outlier on here, so I'll just lay out my situation and what I'm looking for, and if you're into it reach out!

I'm 35, brunette, white with thick rimmed glasses. A librarian type with D cups if you will. I'm finally back at my fighting weight after having a baby last year and I'm also back in the gym trying to tone up. I look good but have a c-section scar and don't wear makeup, so I'm not Instagram hot if that makes sense. I could lose another 5-10 pounds to be at an ideal weight but I'm OK where I'm at for now.

Personality wise I'm pretty talkative, enjoy bullshitting about random topics, and I enjoy getting to know people. I'm not in a rush to sext right away because I'm pretty generous when I do, so I like to get a good sense for you as a person first. Texting isn't a high fidelity medium so it takes a little more effort to get there. My interests are all over the place but lately they've been architecture, interior design, video games (that's a mainstay if I'm being honest), and a ton of other topics that usually coalesce around the social or cultural end of things. I'm extremely well traveled. I'm generally pretty busy with two businesses and a home renovation but I do have time throughout the day to talk.

Turn ons - hot guys duh, good lighting in pics, availability, sense of humor, well rounded interests or ability to engage in a conversation, a good balance between friendly and horOntario. I particularly get along with men who climbed the social ladder, so I'm into blue collar backgrounds as well. I recently read an interesting article about friendship bias and I realized this is one of my biases so I thought I'd throw it out there.

Turn offs - age gaps, fat guys, beards, anyone super into politics, men who want to run off into the sunset together, disrespecting my husband or your wife, jealousy, short term flings, and just general ickiness related to treating me like some OF girl.