36 Let's start an epic romance

I am a 36F in Ontario, married (poly) and looking for something real

I’m creative, playful, and a little chaotic. . When I’m not reading, crafting or deep-diving into true crime, you’ll find me involved in one of my passion projects: running community groups, acting with my local theatre group, or running my kink forum.

What I’m actually looking for? Connection. The kind where we *want* to talk every day. Where we send memes, random selfies, and voice notes about nothing and everything. Let’s do phone calls, online movie dates, maybe even read the same book and talk about it.

Yes, I enjoy kink—but I’m not here just for sex. I want romance, intimacy, laughter, and consistency. Effort matters. Communication matters even more.

You: Male, 30–50, emotionally intelligent (or at least trying), good at communication, and actually interested in building something long term.

If you think we’d click, come say hi and tell me a bit about yourself.