36 Seeking nerdy gamer girlfriend

Hi there. 

Seeking an emotionally available nerdy gamer woman with decent availability who'll play games with me relatively often. We can also play online board games, watch shows/movies, whatever will help us spend a lot of quality time together. I'm a married dad with a bedroom on life support who's looking for quality emotional connection, physical desire, and intellectual companionship. I vaguely plan on exiting at some point (an attempt has been made in the past), but this isn't pressure to be here for it. If it's an exit affair great, if I'm exiting on my own, great. I'm looking to meet IRL eventually - if you're close, maybe a few times a year, if you're far away, maybe a couple of times or once a year. Conventions are a great way to go!

I'm specifically looking for someone who's willing to be open and vulnerable. If vulnerability, emotion, and love are hard boundaries for you, then I'm not for you. I will be vulnerable with you because I believe you have to give trust to get trust (and that's not just with vulnerability either, that's consistency too). I write a lot in my messages and I double and triple text. I grew up on old school forums that had multiple conversation threads going on in one post or message - that's how I tend to message, and it naturally ebbs and flows from one thing to the next. 

I'm also specifically looking for someone who plays games. I play World of Warcraft, you don't have to play it, I'll join you in your favorite games, but I'd appreciate a similar effort back. Maybe you don't play that specifically, but you play other MMOs or are willing to try them. Great! Let's see where we can meet in the middle. To me this is an important part of us connecting and spending time together. I'm not usually a fan of open-world survival games and you'll have to drag me kicking and screaming into Minecraft, but I'll play it with you. I'm hoping you have other interests besides gaming too. You crochet? Show me some of your works! You write? Let me read! You do industrial manufacturing and logistics as a hobby? Well, to each their own, let me into your world.