38 Black woman looking for my unicorn:)

It's been a while, but I'm back again! I'm looking for my match, and hoping it will be you☺️. I've met some great people here, so I continue to be optimistic :). I'm a 38 year old married black woman who lives in the Ontario. I have 2 kids, & I'm slim and attractive. I'm looking for a married man I can talk shit with lol, and eventually form an amazing meaningful connection with. Key word is meaningful. If you're just looking for something casual & sexual, then I won't be the one for you.

I'm looking for someone who aligns with me physically, mentally, and emotionally. To be more specific:

Physically- attraction is very important to me, and I'm looking for someone who is attractive. I don't have specific traits to describe here because as long as you are handsome I will be interested lol . You know if you are.

Mentally- I'm looking for someone who is intelligent ( challenge me pleeeeeaaase), confident in themselves, down to earth, fun to be around, funOntario, and doesn't take things too seriously. Also be consistent & a great communcator.

Emotionally- Please be someone genuine, who can be empathetic, not afraid to express emotions, is able to trust others, be open, etc etc. One of my top love languages is words of affirmation, so verbal expression is really important to me.

Random things- I tend to connect best with guys who I wouldn't expect to be on this site lol....guys who are more on the extroverted side ( not a deal breaker if you're an introvert tho!), enjoy sports, and like bar food lol. I also connect well with ppl who are somewhat up to date with social media language/trends etc. IDK....just cool, normal guys? Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️. I'm open to any race/ culture, but if you're not black, I would prefer that you have experience with black culture, whether it be past relationships, friendships, fam etc. It's just easier to form a connection that way:). I also need someone who is available to talk on the phone and send voice notes sometimes.

If this post resonates with u, and u feel you meet those qualities I listed above...then come get your girl ☺️. In return, you'll get someone with the same exact qualities.