38 dad for daytime (and times thereafter) distraction

Married dad ISO an open-minded lady for frivolity and adultery. I want to connect a bit and be an outlet for each other both physically and on a friendly basis. I'm hoping to chat a bit with regularity and meet for in-person fun as schedules allow (with the understanding that life can get complicated unexpectedly - no sweat, communication is key).

I'm tall, nerdy (like I know way too much about Star Wars, Lego, Marvel, etc), liberal, in decent shape but still appreciate my dark beers and other carbs, and in desperate need of advice on getting my yard under control. I'm looking for one affair partner to be exclusive with: sexual health is priority 1 and I need to keep my circle small. You should feel similarly.

You: married or not, also in somewhat decent shape, living in the NOLA area proper (I'm Uptown). A+ if you're on Telegram. Nerds to the front, but I can rein that in as long as you can still appreciate my GIF game.