39 The men and women on here

So we are all here for generally the same reasons, give or take.

(Ps not actually looking right now but for those of you who asked I'm actually 38, I just put diff ages on my posts so my husband doesn't find me.)

The men on here...

The dead bedroom - wife isn't having sex with you for various reasons. She could have a health issue. She could not be into you anymore. She just doesn't make you feel desired, like the hot man you are. You want to feel hot again. You want to feel manly again. You are looking for a woman who will talk to you about your interests, share her life with you in a limited way you don't really want to hear about her life challenges. You want someone put together who is missing but one thing in her life - you. But the reality is you probably stopped making your wife feel loved years ago. She maybe is a stay at home mom, or she works a full time job and manages the household. You stopped telling her she is beautiful long ago. Maybe you no longer think she is. Or you do, but you stopped making her feel special. You might have done therapy but it's going nowhere. Or you just gave up. So here you are.

The cake eater- your wife f*cks you a few times a month, but you don't feel wanted and desired. Maybe she isn't kinky enough for you. You can't be your unleashed sexual self with her. You want to dominate a slut or good girl (super common here btw) or in more rare cases want to be dominated by a woman. You might be a serial cheater, craving new women, new experiences. You get bored quickly and feel compelled to have sex with many women in your lifetime. You may think you are open to an emotional connection but you know you aren't really. You have that with your wife, at least as much as you want or are capable of. Your family and home is sacred. You just want some excitement. And you don't care what you have to do to get it. You may have narcissistic tendencies. You may have had an unstable childhood. But you know you need sex and lots of it. So here you are.

The horny right now - could be DB or CE, but the horny right now just wants a virtual ONS. You want to get off now. You don't really care if there is a catfish on the other end of it. As long as there is the fantasy that seems real. Once you cum, you ghost.

The single guy - subset of horOntario. Except single and has a kink for married women.

The Women on here...