39 Talk Nerdy to Me

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We're both here because for some reason we're unhappy or unfulfilled at home and because of some sort of ethical deficiency (with a side of emotional masochism) we've chosen this as our solution. Neither of us want to blow up our relationships, but we do want a secret friend, smouldering desire, fireworks, and that elusive spark.

I have a career I enjoy where I work with my mind, but for fun I would rather get my hands and boots dirty. Since I was young I've been a prolific reader, though now I listen more than I turn pages. Should we meet, you will find me calm, confident, easy to laugh and with a smile to mask my nervous excitement. I am tall, athletic enough for a strenuous hike or other intense activities, have distinctive green eyes, a full beard I keep neatly trimmed, and have been variously described as; Cute, ruggedly handsome, and sexy. Though I've also been ghosted after exchanging pics so your mileage may vary. In the interest of partial disclosure, I'm a dad and sometimes it may be difficult for me to chat for a couple hours at a time, I will occasionally reply with smart-ass gifs, and cannot stand when people use "u" instead of "you".

Ideally you are a married woman, aware of what you want, need, and crave. You are introspective enough to understand what you don't desire and can honestly and compassionately communicate that. You are intelligent, cunning, seductive, playful and confident. You aren't scared of an emotional connection and won't just block if you decide we are not the match you were hoping for.

If this sounds like you, and you aren't afraid of joining me on an forbidden adventure then I can't wait to hear from you.

Tell me about something you have a nerdy passion for and/or have unreasonably strong opinions about.

I would be lying if I said physical attraction was not important to me, so I would appreciate it if you're willing to exchange photos before we get to a point where there are hurt feelings if we aren't attracted to each other.

Good luck you beautiful adulteress!