40's Why are dominant men such jerks?

I mean really? Why do dominant men treat submissive women as a throwaway "dynamic." I'm submissive. Every dominant man I've interacted with on this site has been, let's just say it, cruel. Either immediately demanding nudes, giving me a list of rules to follow on the second day, or ghosting.

What's with the ghosting?? Six months, then gone. Two months, one month, and the last message is always totally fine. No warning that it's not working. I'm pretty. I'm normal. Why does this keep happening to me? That's a rhetorical question. Just venting.

Women certainly don't have it any easier here, men. Remember that.