41 Unrealistic Expectations in Raleigh

I’m looking for a True Friend with Benefits.
I want to have it all...

Fans in my home state are known for their unrealistic expectations. I graduated from the University that causes this rollercoaster of emotions so it’s not surprising that it carries over into other aspects of my life. Consider yourself warned.

Overall, my life is pretty great. Stable & happy marriage, great friends, & plenty of interests. But I want the icing on my cake- incredible chemistry & mind blowing sex.

I’ve found that business travelers are a great match. But I want to be able to see you regularly.

I want someone that isn’t afraid of some emotional involvement but isn’t looking to change our real lives.

I want to be a respected equal but spoiled. I’m not looking for a sugar daddy, my bills are paid.

All the best things take time, trust & work.
(I really tried for the 3rd T but “toil” is a buzzkill ;) )

My wishlist:

Confident
Smart
Clean cut
Strong arms
Killer smile
Frequent communicator
Able to host (cars don’t count)
Stable- emotionally & financially
Near my age 35-50

What you get:

I don’t fit in categories easily. I’m in an open marriage that operates more like DADT.

Nerd
Sassy & sarcastic
Sweet & Giving
GGG
Most comfortable in jeans & a T-shirt but also enjoy dressing up
Curvy with stamina
More girl Nextdoor than Sex kitten
Stats- 41, 5’4, brown hair, brown eyes

I love to travel, eat delicious food, drink strong liquor, have engaging conversations & incredible sex... but really who doesn’t?