44 - Ontario I know why the caged bird sings.

I’ve been trapped in my cage for a couple of decades and I’m looking for someone fun to keep me company and distract me from the bars around me. Notice me. Entertain me. Treat me like I’m a person.

I’m not looking for a prince to come rescue me, I never wanted to be a Disney princess. Despite my circumstances I am a strong, independent woman. As a kid I wanted to be Ellen Ripley, Wonder Woman and She-Ra. Though I was more like Wednesday Addams, Velma and Lydia Deetz and still am. So if you are into pale spooky intelligent chicks who always wear black, I might be for you.

I’m looking for a real long term best friend with benefits even if just online. Something that will grow over time, where we want to talk everyday if we can. Someone who I can be myself with and open to sharing anything and everything both fun things and the serious things.

If we feel a connection I want to switch to telegram and hopefully share pictures, voice messages and videos as we become more comfortable. If the chemistry is there I want spicy chat and mutual spicy videos. Maybe even meet up in the future if the stars align. Online only is fine too.

I’m not into being your free only fans girl so quit asking for nudes on day one. I love a good dick pic and video but I’m not sending NSFW pictures unless I am comfortable with you and feeling the connection. Sexting is meaningless if I don’t know you or desire you. I don’t need you to have orgasms, but ideally I would want to with you. I have no desire to just be used by you.

I am hoping to find a fellow member of the freaks and geeks club. You know all the weirdos, goths, emos, punks, nerds, band, art & theatre kids, slackers, stoners, skaters, rockers and other outsiders. Those were my people.

I’m a married super cute feisty red headed stay at home mom, but I am still a goth, emo, nerdy, punk girl at heart and would love to find others who never completely outgrew it. I have piercings. If you are looking for a girly girl or stereotypical suburban mom, I am not for you.

I love learning new things. I like reading, horror, sci fi, stand up comedy, puzzles, and maps. I’m very outdoorsy, love nature and a bit of a crunchy granola girl. My kids are my world.