45 I don't even want a cupcake eater.

I started making a connection and then unforeseen circumstances got in the way and I walked away and he is nowhere to be found. I thought I would take that opportunity to walk away from this lifestyle, but here I am looking for a work hubby. For me a work hubby does not imply a less significant relationship.

Evenings and weekends aren't always out of the question, but they are less frequent and unpredictable at times. I think two people can connect on a very deep level even if they aren't in contact every minute of the day. I read a woman's post the other day about jumping to voice messages right out of the gate.

I think that sounds intriguing. Getting to know someone's personality and seeing if that vibe is there. I want to be able to connect with someone that way almost daily, so why not see if it's there before we spend weeks chatting. I am a married mom of 3 and I hope you are in the same boat.

I'm sorry, but dogs aren't kids. I have a cheerful disposition, but that doesn't mean I won't vent about my situation. I hear the term cake eater thrown around. From my interpretation, I don't want one of those. I don't even want a cupcake eater. Can I coin that term?

If I had love, attention, caring, and affection at home I wouldn't be here. I want to love and be loved. This isn't about the naughty photos or sexting for me. This is about vulnerable, emotional, raw chemistry.