46 Toronto, NC: And then one day I found, 10 years had got behind me...

Long marriage, no kids, and yet somehow I still ended up in a dead bedroom. This kind of physical loneliness wasn't *quite* what I had in mind for myself.

I'm a 46y/o brunette with green eyes, a big smile, an independent streak a mile wide, and a strong sense of humor. As the years have gone by without an outlet for my increasingly intense sexual urges, I've gotten somewhat kinky in my desires. I manage people, so I get my fill of telling other people what to do during work hours. I'm looking for someone willing and able to take control during a few select non-work hours every month.

I'm 5'7" and curvy, what the kids call "thick" these days, I guess. I'm no stranger to the gym or a spin bike, though. My calves, quads and hamstrings could crush you... You know, if you were into that sort of thing. I'm naturally built more for comfort, not speed.

What I'm seeking: Long afternoon sex sessions, flirty pre-sex wrestling with a man strong enough to overpower me; someone to tease me, pretending I'm winning right up until he pins me down, savagely taking my pussy as his prize. After some hard fucking, we'd catch our collective breath, enjoying each other's company and getting to know each other, until you're ready for round two.

I need someone confident enough to not feel insecure about my toys; I don't want them to replace you. I want you to use them on me in ways I cannot. Specific kinks include bondage, Ds, all sorts of orgasm play (denial, edging, forced), con/non-con, light anal play - not necessarily full penetration though, light pain from spanking, nipple clamps, a riding crop perhaps, but no blood or scat.

Oral gets its own section. I love oral, both giving and receiving. My fantasies include having my pussy licked long and hard with some finger play hitting my g-spot until I can't take it anymore and cum hard. As for blowjobs, I've always wanted to have my face fucked, particularly with my head back and off the bed.