49 , Ontario Seeking a friend who understands

Call it a casual ongoing fwb, a mistress, whatever you think might fit. I’m hoping for someone that can relate to my situation and also has needs that aren’t being fulfilled. I’m in a dead bedroom situation due to my partner’s health issues. I say she’s going through “men on pause” (I know ha ha, I’m so clever) We’ve discussed things. Neither of us wants to end our relationship but she recognizes that I have needs that she isn’t able to fulfill currently. She has decided to let me loose to pursue fulfilling my own needs as long as I don’t bring anything home and she doesn’t have to know about it. This really ends up being no different than me spending time with any other friends I have that are people that I hang out with independent of my partner. I’m hoping for an activity partner for things I enjoy but don’t want to do on my own. Long drives where we can get away from everything and be alone in the sun for an hour or two, hikes to find secluded places to hang my hammock together and climb in and cuddle and makeout. Perhaps you have your own place to invite me over regularly. I’m open to options if you also need to get out of the house more often. Im not going to judge your situation as long as you’ll accept mine. I have lots of thoughts about adventures I’d like to have with this friend. I’d love to talk and see where it goes.

I’m 6ft, 220lbs, salt and pepper bearded and green eyed. I’m an intelligent, old punk with tattoos but I can also very convincingly present as a nerdy consultant and data analyst by day. Im definitely somewhere on the spectrum and relate to others who are there as well. I’m in ok shape for my age but I’m not obsessed with working out and I’m not looking for fit body perfection. Curves are amazing! Being strong and able to be mildly active is far more attractive than a specific shape or size.

If I’ve caught your interest and you’d enjoy having a genuine and thoughtful fun friend to put a little adventure into your life without causing any other drama or complication definitely send me a DM and let’s chat. I’m open to anyone but probably going to hit it off with slightly introverted, nerdy moms the best. Don’t let that stop you though if I seem appealing. I’d love to chat.