Come, with your whole dark self

I am a sadistic but nurturing Dom looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive masochist.

D/s relationships offer a depth of intimacy that vanilla dynamics rarely reach — the level of trust required goes far beyond the bedroom, and that’s what draws me to them. I’m deeply turned on by power exchange, pain, and degradation, and I believe in the transformative potential of suffering when it’s shared with the right person.

My kinks include impact play (face slapping and spanking in particular), degradation, face fucking, light bondage, misogyOntario, free use, cOntario, anal, and role play — with degradation and impact play being my two favorites, so make sure you’re genuinely comfortable with both. I’m always open to exploring new territory together as well.

Beyond the bedroom, I’m interested in TPE elements extending into areas like clothing, fitness, and diet, and I’m looking for someone who identifies as a service sub. I practice safe, sane, consensual sex always. Not into DDLG or brat taming.

While I want full sexual control and influence over select aspects of your life, I believe the dynamic should be built together so both of our needs are genuinely met — and we can grow as individuals, lovers, and as Dom and sub.

I’m a very affectionate person and love showing my adoration to a worthy partner. Im romantic, enjoy long, intelligent conversations, cuddling, making out, and doing random things for my partner to show my affection.

I am unconventional, eclectic, thoughtful, curious, and creative with an alternative aesthetic. I work in harm reduction during the day and write at night. I’m very disciplined and take great care of myself. I work out daily and love lower body training. Bonus if you’re a girl who does her hip thrusts. I eat healthy, read often, and practice meditation.

Music is a major passion in my life so it would mean a lot to me to share that with someone. I’m always looking for new music, making playlists, and I trying to go to live shows when I can. I listen primarily to industrial, darkwave, witch house, trip hop, trance, house, and indie/alternative music. And since I started studying Spanish I’ve developed a soft spot for Latin Alternative music (like iLe).