Confused Experince

Hi there OA world!

So I wanted to share an experience I had. I don't traditionally post, as a female I don't want to get floods of messages. So I filter out and message men based on their ads.

About a month ago I messaged a guy who posted how he was looking for an emotional connection. How he wanted something long term. Which I was drawn to and messaged him. We chatted via this site for a day or two. I thought we had good vibes and moved over to snapchat. Once there he immediately started asking for nudes. To which I asked if we could gradually go in that direction. I didn't think I was being bitchy. I did want things to go in that direction but not without discussing it first. I asked if we could slow down a bit. He then unfriended me on snapchat. I didn't think anything of it really and shrugged it off.

Fast forward a couple of weeks later. I messaged after reading an ad (from a different username as above). Similar interests and looking for something long term. I messaged him on chat and we started talking. Quickly realizing it was the same guy from before. I asked him why he ghosted me previously and he said he didn't remember but wanted to try again. I decided to give it a go again and we got back on snapchat. He's less pushy than last time but then quickly starts sending me shirtless pics and pics in his boxers. I genuinely tried to ask about what his expectations were and if he was actually interested in an emotional connection or just a sexting friend.

He then blocked me on snapchat and on this site.

Can we please use our ads to communicate our honest intentions about being here. We are all liars here but let's at least find some common ground. I'm not all that upset about it. Guess I dodged a bullet with that guy (twice). But we all are looking for something and it makes me less inclined to reply to ads when guys do these types of things.

Just my experience so far here! I know we are all trying to find that person who makes us feel less alone. Good luck with your search!