Real deal looking for the total package

Good evening fellas!

I’m on the hunt for one long term affair, filled with real conversations, so much laughing, sharing our days, and all the spice we can handle. I’m looking for the full boyfriend experience and in turn, will give the girlfriend experience back to you in every possible way. I know the time and effort it takes and I’m fully prepared to keep up my end. If this works, we will eventually reach a point where we absolutely have to meet each other- nothing else will do. Please be open to it. But, slow burn to start.

Me-

Mid 40s in EST. An all American mom next door- friendly, approachable, and oh so adventurous. Fit and active, but I don’t live in the gym. Confident. Classy. Happy in stilettos or running on a trail. You’ll find me on a sports field on weekends and in a high rise during the week. Music is the pathway to my soul. My bucket list might be longer than yours- let’s find out.

What I’m looking for -

I am drawn to confident, conventionally attractive and masculine men who are healthy and care about themselves. You don’t need to be a model, but you do need to regularly make the effort. Please be both funny and genuine. Be someone who appreciates the little things in life- let’s create a fun new drink together, or send each other notes about the crazy things our kids say.

I am busy, have kids and a career, but will make all the time in the world for the right connection. I know how to disrupt the mundane aspects of life, but I want to do it with you. I have every intention of making you feel seen and appreciated in so many ways.

We are likely not a match

\- If you operate multiple accounts and find it hard to keep facts on different girls straight (no hard feelings- I just don’t want to play)

\- If you are firmly opposed to meeting in real life ever

\- If you have requirements about politics and religion for me. You can be anything you want. We can talk about it or not. I just believe these subjects are independent of anything I am looking to build here.

I’m looking for one. And hoping for the same from you. Doesn’t have to be right away, but I want to know I’m investing my time long term with someone that wants to be 1 and 1 (in this space anyway, ironic, yes)

I’m married. Let’s chat- please include age and state and whether or not you have the ability to travel. Extra attention paid to high quality responses.