Expat Bear Ready to Meet His Forever Girl & That Quiet, Deep Love

40, Fort Wayne Ontario guy who used to live abroad in Japan for 7 years, and is open to moving abroad again. 5'11" bear build, trimmed beard, thick arms/broad chest, with a boyish smile that sneaks out when I'm happy.

I love cast-iron steaks at home, okonomiyaki/oden, retro games (SNES co-op nights hit different), spooky movies, late-night history reads, and brewing the perfect pour-over.

My life: long summers traveling, cozy Ontario winters, always planning the next adventure.

What I'm seeking: that rare, once-in-a-lifetime love where we choose each other every day. Deep mornings with coffee side-by-side, evenings with your head on my chest, supporting each other through it all, building our little rituals and a home that feels like "us." I've loved deeply before (never married), and I know how special it is.

You:20–46, ready for something serious that leads to living together (marriage eventual)

Kind-hearted, value loyalty, dream of a home with small rituals—shared meals, trip planning, celebrating the little things

Bonus if you love cooking together, retro games, spooky movies, thoughtful quiet vibes, or just cozy nights in

Petite is a nice bonus (the height difference feels right), but I also love tall and well-endowed women too ;) But connection matters most.

If this resonates, I'd love to hear from you—no rush, start slow.

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One lazy Sunday activity you'd love sharing (coffee & cuddles? Gaming marathon? Cooking something fun? Movie under blankets?)

Where you're located right now

The word "orange" so I know you've read this far!

(Optional) One question for me—anything!

Any thoughtful reply gets a quick 60-second calm voice note from me. Patient, only seeking one real connection, happy to chat at your pace. If you're dreaming of that deep, choosing-each-other love, let's talk ♡