extremely sexually frustrated, this community is fun, but tough! (Kind of a meta post, but still an ad!)

Hello all! This is kind of a “meta” post, but it’s also an ad, as I’m still hoping to meet someone! I’m 5’10” 185 lbs Italian background, hwp, average looks, and I’m 30 years old. I’m also a virgin lol. I’ve been posting on this sub for about a year now, most posts I deleted, but lately I’ve left them up. I never really cared much for sex or dating until maybe a year and a half ago, and when I found this sub I thought it might be a good way to meet someone to explore casual sex with, I found dating apps like tinder and hinge to be frustrating and expensive.. I don’t think I truly expected to actually meet someone from here but I always had hope…

I think I ended up using this sub as a way to express my sexual desires and get some of that out of my system whenever I feel horny and it has definitely helped with that! I’ve also had the opportunity to chat with a few women, most of which have been kind and fun to chat with (if they are real, a lot of scammers here to) but no one has taken me seriously enough to actually meet, for one reason or another.. I’m kind, intelligent (this might be debatable LOL) respectful, clean and willing to accommodate people’s needs so that they are comfortable, I’m good with communication (i might over communicate which ik can be a turn off) I’m extremely open minded, I have a car and career I care about, and most of all I really just wanna meet someone to have some fun with without the pressure of a relationship.. and so it’s been frustrating, i feel like I have a lot to offer, and I have had some great convos (some naughty and fun, some inspiring and educational) but they have lead to nothing real.. I’d say my experiences here have been mostly positive even tho they have not been successful, and that I probably will continue to post in the future in hopes of finally connecting with someone :)

If you’ve made it this far and find my post interesting feel free to reach out, I’d love to hear about your experiences here, successes or failures, you can also check out my profile and if you find my posts/fantasies interesting, maybe we can finally make them a reality! Good luck to everyone out there!