What My Search Has Looked Like

I just wanted to share some observations I've had during my sporadic 4ish month tour of this sub as both a poster and a responder.

First, I feel like there are like 30 men who are CONSTANTLY posting the same ads over and over and over everyday. Please stop, it's ridiculous. You can change your user name or delete your old posts, but trust me when I say that if you've ever read the posts up here for more than a day, we recognize a repost when we see it. Change it up or maybe take a break. I'm convinced at this point these aren't real men, but bots or something.

Also, even though it's been said a million times, check your post and comment history. You say you love a mom bod and looks don't matter, but you've commented on every 19yr old dirty cum slut post on this site. Come on.

Second let's talk about some of the men I've met in my journey:

The ghoster: Eh, these don't bother me much, it's all part of the game. It's irksome, but typically happens after a day or two so no big deal.

The creeper: Says weird things, gives off bad vibes. Had one keep telling me that he "really knew me." I'm assuming he meant like my soul or whatever, but we'd been talking less than a week and on this side of things when someone tells me over 6 different times that they "actually/really know me" it's a big red creepy flag.

The "conversationalist": Your ad says you hate one word answers and you love intelligence, yet I'm the one asking all the questions, bringing up all the topics and getting nothing in return. I bring up a topic and it's left unexplored. I ask an open ended question and I get a closed response. It's like talking to a brick wall and I get enough of that at home.

The juggler: I really don't care if you're talking to others, especially if I answered a post. BUT when you copy and paste a response you gave me 20 minutes ago into our conversation that has nothing to do with that response, that tells me you're not only talking to someone else and not paying attention, but you were also too lazy to type out a response to her OR both of us. Also, the ones who ask the same questions over and over or bring up something personal I supposedly said that's not about me at all. I completely get that you have to see who you're compatible with, but you won't find it going half-assed into multiple conversations.