40F BBW Looking for Sparks, Fun and Escape.

I am newly 40. Dead bedroom. I am not looking to change my relationship status or anyone elses. I am also aware my body type is not everyone's jam...if its the case just scroll on by. I am also not a fetish.

I have nothing in common with people in their 20s, so if your half my age and just want to sleep with an older woman I am not the human you are seeking.

Ideally seeking a situation that could progress to offline as sexting while fun only is sustainable for so long and frankly get stale, boring and i dont feel like being an object just to satisfy someones boredom in that moment. I am nerdy , geeky, smart and love a good adventure. I am learning to golf and im terrible at it but its fun.

I work a fairly busy job monday to friday so not super responsive during the day. I am big into OPSEC. Please message me as I will not respond to left below. I will also not respond to folks who treat me as a fetish. I am a pretty straight forward person so if you like to play games im not your girl neither. I dont want to waste my time or anyone else's.

Big Bonus points if you are not vanilla.