Finding the spark elsewhere

Hey all. I've recently posted before about feeling like the spark has dimmed a bit in our marriage. Thanks for everyone who reached out. We've spoken about it recently and have acknowledged that we can both do more to stay more active and such. However I wanted to post today as a bit of a confession/ secret.

Even though the marriage is fine and nothing terrible has happen, I've found myself flirting and enjoying the attention of others. I noticed it a few weeks ago, but lately I just love it. The biggest example would be when my stepchildren bring their friends over.

Having teenage boys checking me out feels exhilarating. Of course I'd never act on it, but it's certainly making me feel sexy and boosting my sex life with hubby. Ever since I've noticed it, it's like everyone I'm out or with people i just like to flirt and have them check me out.

I feel like I'm rambling but I just wanted to get it out and see if anyone else has been in a similar mindset.