Friends before benefits

So I’m looking for a very specific type of connection. I’m not looking for something that gets sexual very quickly. I’m not saying spicy is off limits, but I am saying I want a connection with you first before we cross that line.

I’m not asking for dinner and a show, gentlemen, but I am asking for effort. Show an interest in who I am, and if we connect maybe you can see what’s under the hood. I might even let you rev my engine. I’d love a real friendship first. I want someone to see me in a way that no longer happens here.

I’m not a true BBW but I do have curves. I’m a mom of 3, and while I’m on a weight loss journey, I’m comfortable in my own skin. I’m 5’5 and have long curly brown hair, and brown eyes.

I love to game, when time allows. I’ve recently completed Hogwarts Legacy. It was amazing. My friend recommended Baldur’s Gate or Elden Ring, but I’ve not committed yet. I also really love the Sims and prefer 3 to 4. I read and I’m a huge Trekkie. I also crochet and like to bake, but not cook. Music is life.

I want someone I can have a conversation with. I’m attracted to all races and types, dadbods, fit, skinOntario. It’s your personality that will set you apart. I’m married but we’re not even friends at this point. I’m not looking for an exit affair, but a friend. No spouse bashing, please.

I write a lot, so effort is very appreciated. I’m open to all timezones, but the closer to me the better.

If I sound like your type, send me a message.
Tell me about your favorite game, or which Hogwarts house you’d be in, or what songs you have on repeat. Either of those, or all three if you’re feeling chatty.