Ghosting

46/f
Online affairs can be what your yearning for and missing in your marriage. In my experience it’s a “mature” (meaning older) spouse that wants to spice up their lives and have something to look forward to. A random text, a pic to show you care, sexting to get that blood flowing, you see where I’m going.

Why is it so hard for honesty when the “relationship” is online??? I am shy and hate confrontation irl but when it comes to texting I’m an open book. Why can’t everyone be like that? If it’s not working, there’s no chemistry, or maybe you want to work it out with the spouse.

Whatever it is just speak up!! It’s so immature and cowardly to ghost and leaves the other person lost and insecure. Yeah I’m one of them. Second guessing everything and so down. Just because someone can’t man up.