hopelessly romantic neurospicy sub seeking his forever D

Hello there!

I am a 36 year old guy from the Toronto who lives just outside of The Hague (or Den Haag for those fellow Dutchies). I'm introverted and neurospicy, which has made forming spontaneous new connections much trickier during most of my life- I just don't really tend to strike up conversations with strangers in person and wait for them to approach me instead.

That does understandably get a bit lonely though. I would love to find someone who I can experience happy and sad moments with, who I share some interests with and who's just generally a joy to be around. Basically I'd love for someone to "get" me and vice versa. Aside from having stuff to talk about and share our enjoyment of I don't ask for much - just be honest and communicate. I like directness!

Being autistic I like having a small amount of interests that I'm super dedicated to, over having dozens that I somehow need to try and find the time to juggle. Gaming has been the big one most of my life and I'd like to think I'm pretty good at it - I've even gone to charity events to show off some of the stuff I learned on this front and raise money for a good cause.

Aside from gaming I like kicking back with a good show or movie (though I do gravitate towards anime), taking walks in nature (I live right next to the beach!), anything related to animals though I currently don't have any pets of my own, and of course, traveling, especially to Japan which I've also discovered a major fondness for. Heading that way for the 7th time next year!

But the second biggest interest after gaming would probably be kink. I (unwittingly) discovered a curiosity for it at a very young age and as I grew older and older it started catching my attention more and more. Kink-wise I lean basically fully submissive, so please be dominant or a switch. I would be open to trying out the dominant role myself sometimes, but it really didn't do much for me when I tried it in the past.

Speaking of the past - I do have a decent amount of experience with various kinks, but I would consider myself far from a seasoned pro or anything like that. So there's still lots I would like to try and discover! I'll refrain from posting a full list of kinks here, but it is pretty varied, so feel free to ask if you send a message.