ISO sweet, brainy fat babe for (moderate, retrograde) time travel buddies.

The plain facts: I'm 6'1" and 190 lbs. I have a shaved head and a short beard. Eastern European mutt background if that matters to you. I'm single without any drama, never had (or wanted) kids, and I have two self-employed type jobs that allow for free time. I live in downtown Toronto and can have you over or travel.

What I'm looking for: dating toward a monogamous relationship. I'm not allergic to fooling around but I'm not remotely interested in poly or getting involved with a preexisting relationship. I'm only into bigger women. I mean rolls and a belly, not just curvy - I'd like to hear from more women who are over 300 lbs. (Yes, I will want to show you off in public. I think fat admirers who keep it a secret are bunk.)

What I'm into: I write scary stories, make dark ambient music, fix old computers, cook really good for a filthy casual, and drink black coffee like I'm trying to cope with something. I collect old books, audiocassettes, synths, and intangible infohazards. My favorite pen is a Staedtler FineLiner, and my biggest heroes are Townes Van Zandt and H.P. Lovecraft. I'm more ambitious in creative terms than material ones.

What my life is like: I've been a city mouse my whole adult life but I have friends all across the country, including way out in the forest. I keep on thinking I should go somewhere else before I get too fossilized, but true love would sure be a good reason to stay in Ontario. I'm always walking. I make excuses to do errands in far-flung neighbourhoods so I can get a walk in or play some music in the park. I go to a lot of shows. Sometimes I'll bear down and work 100 hours in a week, sometimes I'll put on the same album for a week straight and write a crazy story. I drink with my friends occasionally and I'm fine with weed smoke though it usually gives me the fear brain if I inhale. I quit cigs about three and a half years back but I don't mind if you smoke those either.

Who I'm looking for: I'm hoping that you're laid-back, kind, inquisitive, and appreciate nuance. I like creative types a lot. If drawing, writing or playing music are among your lifelines, I'm genuinely interested, especially if you like collaborating or talking shop. I'm a sucker for a good voice, and if we're talking long term, it's pretty much mandatory that you read. I've always been a subculture kind of person (diy/metal/folk kind of stuff) but it's totally okay if you're not alt, so long as you're weird.