I’ve seen the amount of DM’s the girls get after posting…

And there’s no way I’m doing that to myself and competing against droves of needy, bored and horny men in there 😂. Hopefully you are reading this though, and I’m the one sorting through the women about to blow up mine (I genuinely expect one message if I leave this for at least 2 weeks)

Hello! I’m looking to chat with a quirky girl that hasn’t been able to be their true self for a long time, or maybe their whole lives. Someone that has been looking at their life’s lately thinking “is this it?”

There is no hobby or interest too niche or too “boring” that can escape my attention. I want you to talk to me because you have been waiting to be yourself and without judgment express your most unhinged thoughts and beliefs, knowing that the person on the other side is here to listen, ask (I truly will ask a lot) and poke fun at the expense of your unique, weird, and nuanced existence.

About me: Married. 5’11, thick black hair, dark brown eyes, beard. Fit dad bod since I enjoy food and my work keeps me active, I also like to go on runs and play pickleball. I enjoy collecting old books and physical music. I’m child-free but I own a growing blue collar business that I treat like a child hitting a five-octave vocal range at age 5 (this thing might make me rich later on is what I mean to say😭)

Texting and calling is fine with me. How our time can be shared is something that figures itself out as the chemistry develops, but having presence is important even if we can only text briefly at times or for days. I will respect any OPSEC you have, so please have a good one if it’s important for you to stay safe.

\- Reach out with a Hi 👋 and tell me about you, or maybe something that came to your mind after reading my post

\- Don’t let an age difference be a deterrence to a potentially meaningful and long lasting connection

\- Be a good and kind-hearted person

\- Presence is important, even if time is not on our side, intention can still be.