Just because you know what you want doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it

Just like the title says, spamming the same post every few days saying you know what you want and won’t settle for less doesn’t mean you will or even should get it. In faOntario, when people see your same-post day after day, it looks like a huge red flag and those most likely to be the attentive types and into high quality relationships are even less likely to engage with you.

Maybe you are a super catch and maybe you do deserve a super catch, but saying both of those things right off the rip genuinely isn’t doing you any favors. Try having an open mind to cultivate what you want even if it takes a bit more effort on your part to sift through replies. Saying only a certain kind of person is even allowed to message you might get you fewer replies and seem easier, but just like how you don’t like low effort replies, your ideal partner probably didn’t like low effort posts.