Let's hurry up and take our time!

I'm Van, a 5'9 redhead with a beard and a couple of tattoos. I'm looking to find someone who's ready to put some real time and effort into building something real and lasting! I always picture my future life in a comfortable home filled with memories. Home cooking most nights. A decent garden out back. A few pets, a couple of kids. I want laughter to echo in the home. If bad stories and memories can haunt a home, then let's bless one with joy and laughter and smiles. I always envision nights with friends, a few drinks, board games and funny movies. Setting up silly themed parties for the little ones and their friends.

I'm very playful and silly, but that doesn't stop me from getting done what needs to be done. I'm super patient and understanding. I hate fights and arguments, let's just talk it out. I'm romantic and believe a man should try to win his woman over every day!

I love the outdoors: fishing, camping, hiking, etc. I equally love my nerdy things: Games, Shows, and books.

Physically, I do prefer thin to athletic types. That's about it. The rest comes down to loyalty, communication, and the like. I want to love someone unconditionally and feel the same.

If you'd like to chat more, hit me up! Stay safe out there!