Looking for a Soft-Domme for a Deep, Long-Term Connection

I am a respectful, responsive submissive seeking a soft-domme for a casual yet dedicated long-term online dynamic. I am currently in a committed relationship, so I want to be clear from the start that I am strictly looking for an online arrangement. I’m looking for someone who can be a friend as well as a mistress—someone I can connect with on a human level while exploring our deeper desires through text and video play.

To give you a visual of who you’d be commanding, I am a black man with an athletic, "slim-thick" build. I take care of my body and have been told I have impressive back muscles, flat abs, and decent-sized thighs. I’m 26, muscular but lean, and I’m proud of my physical presence, especially when I’m being told exactly how to use it or how to display it for your approval. I also have an impressive 7-inch stature that I am eager to put to work under your guidance.

​My Interests and Personality

Outside of our dynamic, I have a wide range of interests that I’d love to chat about. I’m big into cooking and baking—there’s something about the precision and the reward of a good meal that I’ve always loved. Musically, I’m deep into hip-hop and R&B, and I’m always down for anime recommendations. I also enjoy "paint and sips" via YouTube, which is a great way to unwind, and I’m a big reader. I think having these shared interests makes the "friend" side of the mistress/sub relationship much more natural and enjoyable.

​What I’m Looking For

I want a woman who knows how to take control. I’d love for you to tell me exactly what to do, how to touch myself, and how to worship you through the screen. I’m particularly interested in JOI (jerk-off instruction), denial, ruined orgasms, and praise. I love the feeling of being "shown off" and proving my worth to you. One specific area I’m interested in learning is how to control my climax—specifically, learning how to shoot rather than just a quick burst. I’m an open-minded student and ready to learn anything that interests you.