Looking for my first handjob or blowjob from an asian girl

Just to get this out of the way immediately, this is not a race play or fetish thing, as those make me uncomfortable. I just think asian girls are pretty and that's really all there is to this.

Anyway, Hi! Thank you for taking your time to check out my post! It's been a little (lotta) bit of a stressful time for me lately, so I figured why not reach out to this site to see if I can find someone for a fun distraction to help take my mind off things. Obviously I'm 100% okay with either a handjob or a blowjob from the title, but I'm also into edging, orgasm control, a healthy dose of exhibitionism, and more that I'm probably not thinking of right now, so if any of those interest you, or if you have any other kinks you'd like to explore as part of this I like to think of myself as pretty adventurous, so I'm more than happy to talk about them!

As far as my about me, I'm 35, a sort of jack of all trades software dev by day, and definitively a giant nerd by night. I have a whole bunch of nerdy hobbies, but reading and (to a significantly lesser extent) gaming are the ones I probably spend the most time with, and I'm a huge fantasy/sci fi fan. I'm also into some crafting type hobbies, working with my hands, playing music, and a whole bunch of other things that I'd love to talk about. I do my level best to be a pretty chill and easy to talk to guy, and I'd love for you to tell me all about your interests as well! Physically I'm about 6'1, short curly brown hair, black rimmed glasses since I never outgrew my emo phase, and in pretty thoroughly average shape, though I am forever struggling to turn that average into good. Also more than happy to exchange pictures or do whatever you need me to in order to feel comfortable, as safety and comfort for both parties is extremely important to me.