Married southern man seeking a long term, online girlfriend to love.

Home has slowly turned into two people sharing space more than sharing a life. I've tried to change that, genuinely, but some things don't shift no matter how hard you push. So here I am, looking for someone to fill that void in my life.

What I want is someone to connect with and fall for. Not just chat, really dive into each other lives and get to know each other, want each other, and need each other. Someone to get flirty with, laugh with, and maybe, if the universe cooperates, genuinely fall for. I want to feel wanted again. And if you've read this far, there's a good chance you do too.

A little about me: I'm 6'1", dark blonde hair, blue eyes, full beard, glasses. Working on getting a little more fit but I'd say I am a medium build. By day I'm a developer (in-office Mon–Thu, WFH Fridays), which means I'm usually at a desk with plenty of time to actually message throughout the day. By night I'm deep in a game, a fantasy novel, or sitting outside with a bourbon and a cigar.

What I'm actually looking for: Someone in or within 3 hours of CST who has real time to invest in this. Not just a quick message here and there, but someone who actually wants to show up consistently. I don't care about body type at all; I'm far more drawn to how someone thinks and makes me feel than anything physical. Long-term only. I don't ghost and I won't tolerate it either. If you're in, be in.

I'm caring, emotionally attentive, and genuinely love encouraging the people I'm close to. I listen well, I notice details, and I have a lot to give to the right person.

If you made it this far, send me your age, general location, and your favorite summer vacation spot, and let's find out if we're each other's missing piece.