Nerd with an observatory looking for something real

I’m a software engineer who’s built a life I’m proud of, and I’m at the point where I’d really like someone to share it with.

I’m the kind of person who can spend a night playing video games, go out for a round of pickleball or golf, or photographing the night sky from my own observatory. I love a mix of things — sci-fi, concerts (anything from symphony to metal), museums, travel, and just getting out and experiencing something new.

Personality-wise, I’m easy to talk to, a good listener, and someone who shows up consistently. I’m the kind of partner who values honesty, loyalty, and actually building something together.

Physically, I’m 5’8”, working on getting in better shape, and I’ve been told I have a great smile (and apparently a great butt, which I’ll let you judge 😄).

I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally grounded, and able to laugh. Someone who wants a real connection — not perfeOntario, just genuine.

If you think we’d get along, I’d love to hear from you.