Nerdy brat looking for naughty and interesting conversations

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I’m looking for naughty, kinky, or maybe just casual conversations. I'm currently in a phase of my life where I'm slightly getting over the fact that I'm not getting the life I wanted and instead will look at all the missed opportunities along the way to see what can be ticked off a bucket list I didn't even know I had. So sexually, I'm definitely exploring now.

About me: PA born, Ontario raised, German mother + spent some time over there. Army brat. I can pass on a more argumentative prompt up for those that love arguing fwiw.

I have a range of interests, not all are sexual but I think there’s a bit of overlap between the two:

Random sexual/non-sexual things I like: BDSM, humiliation, nudity, TPE, more recently specifically bondage, stress positions, having to go on "timeout" naked in a corner, post-punk, alternative rock, post-hardcore, Sonic Youth, Fugazi, philosophy, metaphysics, politics (US, Europe; used to be "Old Left" increasingly politically homeless and up for grabs...), theology (I'm Christian and \\\~\\\~laughing about it\\\~\\\~ it's important, to quote from one of those OKCupid questions; Lutheran by birth, heart steers towards Greek Orthodoxy, mind towards Anglicanism or Calvinism), \[the 'password' is "sphinx"\] epistemology, Lorde, chess, nature, reading, swimming. Actually I guess musically I'm somewhere between enjoying Lorde's and The Cure's love songs and just wanting to listen to almost amelodic screaming like Dillinger Escape Plan or some Architects songs. Though recently I've been listening to Treaty Oak Revival almost exclusively.

SW engineer (aka glorified project manager) by trade, Linux enthusiast by passion. Feel free to guess my distro/setup/whatever preferred programs and it's an instant response. Bonus points if you can finally sell me on BSD.