Playful, loving, bratty Soft Dom looking for his fiery bratty sub

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What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a D/s dynamic woven into it. For me, kink and romance go hand in hand. I'm a natural caregiver, so being a soft dom comes naturally.

As a dom, I don't want a slave, a doll, or a doormat. I'm looking for someone crafty and challenging. A Brat. I love the push and pull. I love taking care of and nurturing my sub. I'm not here to rewrite you or break you. I want to support you in becoming the best version of yourself. I want to be your safe haven and your home. the place you can be fully yourself. Praise and head pats are standard. For me, dominance means more when it's earned through respect and admiration, not demanded.

On the relationship side, I want someone emotionally intelligent, strong-willed, and open to growing together. Outside of kink, I show affection through quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation. Much like my preference for a brat, I've learned I need a partner who supports me but also pushes me and challenges me. Someone who flirts and banters back just as much and just as hard as I do.

I love learning and taking genuine interest in my partner, so ideally you've got hobbies different from mine.

To repeat, because I feel a lot of people who've replied in the past glossed over this, I am looking for someone fiery, smart, who loves challenges, who's independent and strong-willed. I'm not looking for someone meek or passive. I understand this might sound harsh, but I thrive off this type of personality. This is what I connect with best.

I’m most attracted to tomboys, and alt. That said, I’m open minded when it comes to appearance.

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About Me

I'm caring, playful, intelligent, and down to earth. I'm very much a go with the flow, give what I get type. I'm insanely curious and love learning or diving deep into topics. If you care about MBTI at all, I'm an INFP.

I'm a massive tease and a flirt. Honestly, I'm a massive brat myself. which is why I connect best with other brats. I love the games we play and the boundaries we push.

I'm introspective and introverted, with some anxiety and depression that I manage. So I can be quiet at times and keep to myself. I can also flip to a much more serious tone when the moment calls for it. I’ve been told that I have a warm and soothing feel.