Respond more to and posts!

I notice more and more that there are a growing number of **** and **** posts... and that is great! When I started using (several usernames and many moons ago) it was a ton of men and not many women posting.

I wanted to make a PSA about responding to **** and **** posts! I'm so worried by the growing number of posts right next to each other that you ladies aren't even looking at what is up there first before posting, and it is sad. This month, I've seen a lot of great posts get lost with 1 upvote and no comments, and while I'm sure they could (and should!) have gotten a *flood* of PM's, I'm highly doubting they did at all.

I'm making some wild assumptions here, so I wonder if the men of could chime in.

**Men, how often have your posts been responded to?**

I'm going to guess that for every post in looking for relationships (not sex, not platonic friendship, not penpals), 1/20 of those get responded to. Just a random stab in the dark.

**Ladies, how often have you responded to an post?**

Maybe I'm totally wrong and it is happening... in which case, awesome! Forget what I said and downvote me to oblivion.

Thanks for reading!