Seeking Someone Real

I'm not looking to change my current situation (married), but do need a sexual outlet (chatting, possible meetups) with someone on a regular or semi-regular basis; as our daily lives permit. So ideally someone that is seriously looking for the same and is totally fine with a no strings situation, but understands that we only play with each other. Just looking for one reliable person for this situation, not multiple people. I have dark brown hair, 5'7", dad bod. Anyway, hoping I can find someone on the same page!

PS: This is the internet, so there are a lot of people on here who are not who they claim to be. Either for scam purposes, or who knows what other reasons. So at some point, I'd want us to somehow verify to each other that we are who we say we are. We can figure out how best to do that. But if that's something you're not willing to do for whatever reason, that's gonna be a red flag to me.