Seeking Something Different - Dreamers, How About An Adventure Like This...

We would get to know each other over a few months, establishing mutual friendship, connection and trust, after which we would get an Airbnb and spend a few days away... like an escape from the norm, a break from reality. We'd go on walks, chat for hours, lay on the grass staring into the sky, listen to music, watch silly movies, cook together, go sightseeing, go out for meals/drinks, and dream our time away. If you ask nicely I might even treat you to a massage! You decide whether you'd like it to be neck, shoulders or elsewhere. I can make it as formal or as sensual as you like.

So about me! I'm a respectful, professional male and my interests include keeping active and cooking in my spare time. I'd like to think I'm decently attractive as I look after myself and frequent the gym whenever possible. I am into coding and playing guitar, although I suck at both, hahaha. If it matters I'm Chinese (Hong Kong) by ethnicity, 180cm tall, 75kg, HWP. Bonus points if you speak Cantonese! I don't take drugs/smoke, have no tattoos, and only drink alcohol occasionally. Oh, and I absolutely love animals, especially birds. I currently pet sit as a hobby, so if that's something you're also interested in maybe we could even co-sit!

Diving deeper, I grew up in a strict and controlling household where we were expected to respect cultural and religious values. This meant I ended up marrying the first girl I kissed and dated, and have always wondered if I'd missed out during my adolescent years. Now with kids, I'm feeling even more trapped than before and would like an escape of some sort, so perhaps this could be an avenue through which we can both explore our desires further?

I am seeking something ongoing with the right person, so first and foremost am after mutual connection and deep friendship. Please be open to the idea of meeting IRL one day if we click.

I WFH so can be flexible and available to chat throughout the day. Drop me a message if you can relate? :) No ghosting please! I promise I won't disappear. To say upfront, I'm not looking to change your/my situation if things progress beyond online.