Some thoughts for both men and women here.

Since no one asked me for my two cents, I thought it would be only fair to give them.

It is possible to meet your person. And it is also possible it will start from a smart ass comment to your post, or in the other person's case making a smart ass comment.

Connections are hard, if you can not put in the time for that person it will not last. Talking about your feelings and having legitimate feelings will make your connection last.

It's okay if it doesn't.

The exact same post may get 5 responses 1 day, and 0 responses when you try it again 2 months later.

If you write a quality post. You will get responses days later. Women do scroll down, they do look, they do try. You should too. I have heard most of the guys are just awful here. That is both your strength and weakness.

Don't knock small talk, or playing games as a way to get to know someone. You can't force the deep dive into each other's soul. I guess what I am saying is don't have any preconceived notions about what it will be like to conneOntario.

It may take years to find your person. I was on here for years, so was she. We never connected till a year ago.