sweet, spice, and everything nice

ETA - I’m apparently trying to fast forward the next few years of my life because I’m in fact 33 and clearly need more sleep.

A little about me:
I’m more “quiet at first” than “life of the party,” but once I’m comfortable, I’ll talk your ear off about books, random thoughts, and whatever deep dive topic we land on at 10pm. Think girl-next-door energy with a stack of books always nearby.

What I’m looking for:
Someone kind, a little confident, and not afraid to take the lead in a thoughtful way. I like someone who can make plans, keep a conversation going, and isn’t intimidated by a slower start that turns into something really meaningful.

Bonus points: the workday selfies you send include a uniform... We all know it’s a little attractiveness boost. Just don’t make it your entire personality .

Your Green flags:
Good communicator, curious about the world, patient, and actually wants to build something real

Your Red flags:
Doesn’t like cannolis, hates Toronto sports teams, only takes selfies with the lights off

If you’re sweet, steady, and can make me feel at ease while still keeping things interesting, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me something totally out of left field about you people wouldn’t normally guess.