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I may regret this some time after posting, but something about missing all the shots you don't take.

These days, I can't help but feel that something is missing. I'm married, but lacking attention and affection for quite some time now, so I guess I'm looking for a meaningful connection.

Why you probably wouldn't want to message me:

- I'm not from the US or Europe, timezones can be a bit tricky. I'm also not Local, so I don't have a cute accent either. I'm not particular about where you're from; you'll probably always be on the other side of the screen anyway.

- I'm not slim nor conventionally attractive. I don't have shiny hair, striking eyes, a natural flush. I probably look decent on a good day.

- I haven't been to the gym in ages. Work and studies take up a lot of my time. But I do know quite a bit about it and would hype you up!

- I don't have kids. I love them, but I'm not a mom. I don't mind if you're a dad, I may just not be able to relate as much.

- I love wordplay, and innuendos are my love language, but that doesn't mean I want to bang. At least not right away.

- I won't send photos right away nor do I expect you to. Feels a bit risky, and there's only so much we can do with looks when it comes to an online connection.

- I'm a little bit shy, weird, or awkward, but I match effort and energy. You're chatty? Great, I will be too. "Hi" "Hello" "How are you" "Cool" messages aren't my thing. I want a conversation.

- I can be needy. I understand we have our own lives, but I'll still want to spend time with you or hear from you.

- I do eventually want to move off of this site - telegram or discord only though.

- I don't go for younger guys. My age or older only please. I'm not a bot, an OF seller, AI, or anything like that. Just a gal!

- I'm not afraid of feelings. I like being sweet and affectionate, even with the distance.

Hopefully that helps manage some expectations and thinned the crowd. If you've made it here, I guess we can give it a try. Apologies in advance if I don't get to reply, which usually happens when it gets overwhelming. Fingers crossed it isn't the case this time!