dead bedroom and looking for a discreet FWB

Not looking to change my situation or to play right now. I’m 41, in a dead bedroom situation, 5’9ft, Dad bod (but on a fitness journey), naturally dominant but will switch for the right soft femdom, DDF, experienced, sane and mature.

Ideally you’re keen to chat first and see if we vibe, under 5’6ft tall, open minded, kink friendly, DDF, non-judgemental, mature minded and in a similar situation. All body types are welcome. I do have a soft spot for flexible chubby women.

Some things that I’m into:

Gentle Domination

Rough fucking (fucking you senseless)

Dirty talking (name calling included but not necessary)

Breast play

Playing bareback/breeding (whilst I prefer it, I play safe as well. But how hot are creampies and having it dribble down your inner thigh)

Sexting

Anal play (giving and rimming)

Rimming (mutual, love tongue fucking a tight hole and I love getting rimmed in return)

Handjobs (receiving a slow sensual hand job is just heavenly for me, stroke me right and listen to me moan and groan as I shift my hips with each stroke)

Oral (mutual, What’s not to love about going down on a woman?)

Toys (love playing with remote toys in public, I plug and have some remote controlled toys that I personally use)

Restraining/ropes (I need a rope bunny to practice on)

Spanking (giver, enjoy using my trusted riding crop)

Foreplay (lots of it, I love teasing)

Taking photos/vids (not a deal breaker)

Edging (starting to get into milking, and I personally edge all the time. Would love a soft femdom to edge me)

Foot play (One of my fetishes, I’m a sucker for pretty pedicured feet. Soft soles and pointed or scrunched up toes)

Orgasm control/Forced orgasms (my favourite thing to do)

Thanks for reading and play safe.