Why your Posts/Comments are being removed

The sub is increasing in activity. Rapidly.

In the last 40 days the sub has grown 2000 members and we might make another 1000 before christmas. So of course that means more posts and comments. More people looking. Also means more posts are being removed. here are just some of the reasons and what you can do to not run afoul of the automod or a real Mod.

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1. You accidentally mistyped punctuation. Meaning if you didn't leave a space between words and a period the automod reads it as a website. It will be removed but mods can reinstate it (see below)
2. You are single. singles are not allowed to post though you can approach users; PM, chats, and comment on their posts. PSA: If you aren't single it makes our life easier and yours if you don't write your post as if you are. If you are lying, it will come out and then you will be banned.
3. You are using this site as an R1this site service. This one is tough. Not all people looking for affairs are into the "relatioship" thing. Even still if your post is simple. I want a BJer or "free tonight who want to come over" it's getting removed. We can't nuance this one. If all you are after is a ONS there is a better way of saying it. Something like not looking for long term, or not looking for exclusive.
4. You're a solicitor, scammer, troll, or harassing a user. These are instant bans Mods won't even ask questions. You've been warned.
5. Sometimes the automod can be a dick. Just saying. Just PM the mod team and we will take care of it.
6. You've posted more then once in 3 days. Repeated offenses results in temporary ban and we've perma banned users who change their user ID to post more often or delete post history. We are watching. I know a couple that were IP banned from this site for violating sub and this site rules here.
7. ‘you’re not putting a location in the title of your post

Lastly if you think your post/comment has been removed please don't delete it. Leaving it is the only way we can troubleshoot why it was removed. We can reinstate them. Only users can delete their posts. If you delete then contact us there isn't anything we can do.

As always you can contact the mod team. We are here to create a "safeish" environment and interactions between users.

Have a great week and Happy Holidays to everyone.