Toronto seeking kinky friends and lovers

Hi all! Am returning to this sub after a long absence, hoping to date around a lot and try several different roles, dynamics, and experiences with a lot of different types of people.

First, a bit about me. I'm a student and hold down two jobs. I have a lot of experince in the world of kink and BSDM and would expect anyone who reaches out to me to be well versed as well. ENM. I will also say right now I am uninterested in any type of 24/7 or TPE kind of dynamic, but there are many types of submission (and domination!) I've practiced and want to learn more about. I like very much the idea of a kind of mentorship through the parts of my sexuality that might remain uncovered after growing up very sheltered. All of which I would be very excited to detail when we connect! For example, I have been desperate to try shibari (folks with rope skills to the front!) however there's even more to share if we conneOntario. I have also done a lot of academic research on psychodynamics etc etc and have a real intellectual fascination and delight in kink, BDSM, and human sexuality. I love asking questions and I love learning. Submission is earned and is its own dimention of power. Reading, writing, and music are the rest of my favourite things.

Now some things about you. You are one person! Definitely am open to threesomes and group sex, but only after some trust and security has been built. You are excited and interested in being friends as well! The intensity of the kind of sexual experiences I'm seeking require some basis of respect and trust-- I also hope that some dates and hanging out will be a part of seeing each other but I expect no commitments on this front. Strong communicators who know what their logistical and emotional constraints are are a must. I don't expect to see anyone all of the time. Quick witted and extremely intelligent. I like when I can tell I have something to learn from someone and they don't hold it above my head. Unless in a sexy way ;) Must be downtown and able to host!

Hopefully that's enough information for now. When you reach out, please be sure to tell me what about me fascinated you in my post, and in what ways you might be a good match. I am very much looking forward to hearing from you <3