36 College Professor looking for a cerebral but naughty connection

Greetings. I posted on another this site, and it blew up. So many chatGPT messages or just people wanting a quick hook-up. To be clear - I am **NOT** looking for that. I'll be posting what I posted on the other this site just in case I find some more interesting people here. If you read this all the way, please include your profession and favorite cuisine in your message.

If you see this post and reached out before, but I didn't reply, feel free to message again with the above. It'll help me filter who is spam and who isn't, which will lead to a reply :)

I apologize for the barren and new account. I have a personal this site but I do not want the information I post there to come back to haunt me or damage my career. Similarly, I do not want to share personal info about myself like where I work, etc. I am happy to share that I'm a tenure track professor in the sciences (which means I have to be ***extra*** careful)

I'm looking for a connection that bridges in and out of naughty playing/kink. I am married (he does not know I play), and am seeking a deeper connection. I love getting to know someone cerebrally. Not looking to change your marriage or mine, or interfere in our day to day lives.

Examples: What are their hobbies? What moments defined them? Etc. But I'd also NEED a sexual release/outlet. Looking to get off together. Maybe even BDSM online. I'm an exhibitionist, so I love sending naughty pics and videos (as we chat more, I'd love to share of your choice.). Voice and video play are fun with the right person. I'm also a slave so if you're into TPE, I'm VERY into that.

Again, I'm not looking for a quick get off. But something long term. Where I care for someone as a person (non sexually and sexually) and want them to release - but also getting to know them as friends, etc.

Please be intelligent. You don't need to be a professor, but you need to be able to write in complete sentences. Intelligence is a must. And be able to carry a conversation.

Please understand a non-sexual connection is a MUST and needed for a sexual connection

Please be older than 27. I will not reply to anyone who is younger. Will block.

I've played online for years and stopped, so I can focus on my kids. But now I am back. I need the outlet. I need more.

Discretion is a must! Happy to exchange face pics if we click, though.