36 Midlands just looking for something real on the side

M36 midlands, not really sure how to start this but here goes...

I'm married, so yeah... not looking to change that, just being upfront about where i'm at.

I miss that spark you get when chatting to someone new, the kind where you end up smiling at your phone like an idiot.

looking for someone genuine, easy to talk to, not just one word replies and disappearing acts. life's pretty full on most days but feels like somethings missing if that makes sense. would be nice to have a connection that starts with chats and maybe turns into something more over time, no pressure tho.

I'm laid back, bit sarcastic, probably drink too much coffee. good listener (or so i've been told lol). just want something real, even if it starts small. if you're in a similar place, say hi. don't overthink it :)