36M If this is the best post you read today, send me a message. If not...

…then let’s argue about it. But it will be, because I’m gonna write the whole thing without mentioning “craving a spark”. 🤣

Let’s start here: I'm a 36M living in Ontario. However, I'm a sporadic traveler to OKC for various reasons that I can explain later. I'II actually be in OKC next in just over a month. I’ve done this before. I’m reaching exhaustion as far as this search goes, so I’m looking outside of my immediate area. I’m not interested in meeting IRL tomorrow, but I would like to at some point. This post is me giving you and I some time to work toward that.

Yes I’m married. Just like you…that’s not changing. There’s a reason things are the way they are. You understand that, and thats why you’re reading this.

A little about me - I like to eat, travel, and I find something to laugh at in almost every situation. I’m extremely sarcastic (which makes for good banter if that’s your thing). I definitely go to the gym, but I’m not a “gym rat”. More specifically, I like to work out but I also like to drink and eat…I understand balance I guess. I’m also rather reticent, but that goes away with time. I’m not too self absorbed to laugh at myself, and I’m a good conversationalist. Of course there’s more for us to learn about each other, so I won’t spoil it all here. But I’m a mix of things. I listen to all kinds of music, I watch a lot of sports, I’m like a low-medium level nerd maybe? You’ll have to tell me.

You don’t owe me anything, I’m not out to talk to just anybody and I’m not weird or creepy. I’m probably one of the most normal guys in this corner of this site (but I’m biased). I’m hoping for a situation where conversation comes really easily for both of us. Something that is light and really fun, but I’m not afraid of serious or deep conversation. Something where we have an understanding and can be on the same page. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone nor do I want to be burdened. We’re adults with lives and priorities, so I don’t expect every waking minute of your time. I’m not super needy, I’d just like for us to find a nice rhythm of communication that works for us. I’m not risky or reckless with this whole thing and I’d hope that you aren’t either.